I understand that all of us must have pride to uplift ourselves for any destruction of our reputation and dignity. Pride is used to help us subvert such distraction and disastrous condemn. Also pride undertakes the eroding of pity against us. Pride defies pathetic. Without it you will be pathetic all through out your life. Use pride only in optimistic way, over using it can lead to self-destruction. Why? Because pride in wrong aspect can lead to sin. As it is enlisted as the number one deadliest sin in man's life. Surplus of pride can consume people, your love ones and friends. Pride in an instant of rank and subordination of others without any humility and good leadership may cause faction and revulsion. Remember that we, human beings should be also submitted to others sometimes. It is not always to control others and to follow your orders. Yielding is not bad at all. Allowing yourself to follow that majority for the sake of welfare of all and well-being can help to achieve for the betterment.
On the other hand, humility is the contrary of pride. Humility is the submission of oneself to abasement and abjection according to God's desire and humanities welfare. It is the best way to live life, because living in humility can cause others to respect you more and to love you more. Pleasing others with respect reaps also please and respect. Though so much humbleness can sometimes exploit by others through fraud and cheat. Martyrdom is good but if it destroys your being already you can at least take up yourself and say, “Wait a minute, I am being used and cheated by bad people!” Thus this must be stopped and corrected it with good humility and positive pride.
I believe that life is in moderation, extremes can cause negative effects. Knowing that life is moderation that pride and humility must be balanced and equilibrium, so that it would be best and everyone will be just and same.
